What is the meaning of love.. i think that's what been often on our mind. esp when our love life doesn't work out.
We lose faith in love and think if love ever does exists for us.
A friend of mine felt this way.
But this is what i told her: When love fails, it's normal that we questioned the meaning of love ourselves. We always thought that true loves always have happie endings just like those in the fairy tales.
But when all these fall through, we began to doubt love. doubt if love ever exists. doubt if love is ever true. doubt the meaning of love.
We might even feel that all that had happen before 'our love' fails was delusional. unreal like some might say. But for myself, I always believe that love will still exists, even if i might have negative thoughts along the way but i will stay positive about it. Be happie with yourself, love yourself and love sure will exist. As for the meaning of love, i guess it's not just up to ourselves to decide but also on people that we loved dearly. why search for the meaning of love so hard yourself when love is about two people? Let him/her define love with you. It's not a lonely battle.
My friend said: Relationship can make a person very happie but can also be very tired at times.
A risk to believe in love which everyone fears just like why we fear the word' trust' but no risk no love.
you 've already placed your 'stake' once you 'are in love'. your youth, your time, your effort, your trust. and yourself as a person. To feel love and loved, accept the tiring times as if they were the risks in relationships, stakes that you lost. Learn to remember the winning moments, the happie moments instead. Learn to win back the stakes. That should be the overwhelming factor.
.remember true loves do not have happie endings but happie beginnings. .happie chaotagirl.
.CHAOTA-FIED.
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